To Be or Not To Be a Matchmaker

The reasons I decided to become a matchmaker in 2024

3/26/2025

Because I love love. No—because I love weddings. No, wait—because I believe it's never too late to find "the one." Or maybe it's because I know that strong couples build strong families, which create strong communities, ultimately strengthening us all. I truly believe we are better together. As the saying goes, "Two heads are better than one."

I want to be a matchmaker because of three core beliefs:

  1. Love is deeply desired but often misunderstood. I know that African American individuals want and seek lasting love and successful relationships. But too often, the journey to finding the right match can feel frustrating and confusing.

  2. I have a knack for assertaining fit. With over 20 years as a recruiter, I'm no stranger to searching for that hard to find “purple squirrel” candidate—the one hiring managers insist exist! I'm a patient listener and a determined seeker, and I apply the same persistence and intuition when it comes to matchmaking.

  3. I'm a natural connector. A personality assessment once revealed one of my greatest strengths: connection. Bringing people and resources together isn't just something I do—it's who I am. It's always come naturally to me, and I love watching the magic unfold when the right people meet.

For these reasons, I believe I'll thrive as a matchmaker. It's not just about introducing two people—it's about ensuring their connection is meaningful, sustainable, and fulfilling. The true measure of a match isn't just the initial spark, but how well both individuals meet each other's expectations over time.

I'm excited for this journey—will you join me?

Adrienne B